Written by Dr Venugopal Gouri
HOMEO CALL Solve problems of depression in your children with these simple homeo solutions
Sadness is a natural emotion. One is prone to moods once in a while but when it becomes a habit and transcends into a state of hopelessness, discouragement and despair, it can be termed mental depression. This can strike the young too — even ch ildren from the age of nine are prone to it.
Although depression may not sound very common in children,
the age group of 9 to 12 years are crucial as the size of an adult’s
brain is achieved then. It is therefore the time for the proper
connections of the grey matter which is essential for thinking. Any
untoward influence at this age when the brain is busy choosing the
necessary neural pathways and discarding the less needed ones can alter
the mood of the children; thereby moodiness is more evident.
Moodiness is a part of growing up and children, including
adolescents, have their share of swings of emotions. But with the
strain of studies and the increasingly stressful environment they are
growing up in, gloominess and depression have become increasingly
common.
There are several causes for children to get into this
state. In this changing world, freedom and permissiveness for children
have become the order of the day. Consumerism has changed the lifestyle
of the children which insists on their senses to yearn for more. Also,
with improved GDP, there is increased mobility, and a rise in the
number of both parents working and away from home. The break up of
parents is on the rise too.
Children now have access to technology like computers,
mobile phones and the internet, which can assail the moods of the young
when they are not monitored. The stress to achieve the best results in
academics and being driven to study certain subjects, even when their
aptitude does not suit those needs, adds more strain on the individual.
But the fact of the matter is that every child in gloom
does not necessarily react or exhibit symptoms in the same way. Some
children are shy and unhappy and easily moved to tears if forced to
answer on issues. Tearful and fearful is their nature and unhappiness
about their life and appearance is common. Baryta carb, Pulsatilla and Natrum mur are a few remedies which can bolster their confidence and keep irrational fear away.
Some children are extroverts and throw their weight around.
Stubbornness is their mode of expression which transforms into tears
and rage on further discontentment. Sullen moods with snappy attitudes
towards parents are common. Pessimism is a feature and such children are
helped by Chamommilla, Cina and Ranunculus so that they have a better outlook and attitude.
A few children express their sadness like adults, in the
sense that they are so weighed down by woe that even small
disappointments like losing the top rank in class by a whisker are
considered huge failures. Aurum met, Ignatia, and Calc carb induce a sense of balance in such kids.
There are other children who could have faced the worst
trauma and can develop inconsolable symptoms which make them sit and
sob all the time.
They could develop further mood changes apart from
obsessive symptoms like checking doors and locks. Irrational fear
becomes common. Such children can be helped with medicines like Stram and Lachesis. Counselling is also the need of the hour.
To calm the troubled waters of the mind, Homoeopathy is the ideal remedy.
If there is a simple, safe and swift path to recovery of health then it has to be homoeopathy. Founded more than two centuries ago by Dr.Samuel Hahnemann, a German Physician, pained with the therapy of the times was on search for an alternative and discored Homoeopathy.